well since the banhammer is lurking over my head by tha big bad Mr Mod Miller , i figured itd be a good time to say ghuddbye before I cant anymore.
Im not going to fight being banned but i am going to fight. this is not a "chris situation". I know im on my way out and frankly i dont give a damn. So no, im not going to go peacefully, but I do want to give credit where its due
Postaldude & TK : yall two are easily my favorite two people here. not always serious, sarcastic, etc. if im going to miss anyone its gonna be yall. Stay true ma brothers, stay sarcastic *does jiggy fistpump*
Nick: youre a cool dude too, and I wouldnt feel right not including you. take care potna.
BB: well, i got ta give you credit for taking over this damn website. ghud luck with all that.
dr.doom & driver of doom: Yall are pretty chill, so good luck out there
Harequin: well youve never done anythignto me so i wouldnt feel right putting you in the next section, so take care aswell. i hope you find a better job.
and ifjust in case, this is the last post i can ever make,
peace out yall,
Derek, aka Sedans
Re: formal goodbye
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 5:00 am
by T.K.
See ya, Sunshine. Thanks for the words. We'll miss you too.
Re: formal goodbye
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 5:10 am
by RacingFreak
Hey dude, hey. Look, don`t leave, we will miss you
Re: formal goodbye
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 5:23 am
by Sedans
its not a leaving thing if i get banned i cant stay. o_o
Re: formal goodbye
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 5:27 am
by T.K.
Then stop being a silly nanner. bb said somewhere he was going to be a mite stricter, and Miller is simply enforcing.
Re: formal goodbye
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 5:37 am
by Sedans
na. im not gonna dumb down for tthis forum. i dont give a damn anymore let them ban me.
& Nick isnt acting like a hoe, & hes a mod.
Re: formal goodbye
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 5:54 am
by max.thunder
Ok, i'm a driver freak, but you can't offend people on this forum, this forum was made for Driver freaks, people who like Driver series no matter what will happen. People like me, a TRUE fans of the series.
Miller isn't bad guy, he's changing the forum into a some good and a cleaner place, he's some kind of Sheriff here, i respect him, he also told me to not act bad here with obscene words, but final objective of this is making a forum for wider range of audiences of this game (probably we will get more members because of the hype of Driver SF) and Miller don't want to show to people this kind of forum (with words like "/#*!). Before that we were in a kinda "Wild West" thing, everyone posting what he wanted (even me, posting nude pictures). But it's Change or die. We have to adapt to this new rules.
Good luck man, take care of that Crown Vic.
Re: formal goodbye
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 7:14 am
by Clutch
ok Sedans, so goodbye.
I liked you and i'll miss you on this board.
As m.thunder said - take care of ya ride.
And Happy x-mess, if you are Christian : )
Re: formal goodbye
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 8:00 am
by Nikusakken
What exactly happened?
Re: formal goodbye
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 8:22 am
by PostalDude
*salute*
I'll miss ya. I enjoyed talking about SR with you.
Hope you get to mod your Vic more.
Re: formal goodbye
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 8:44 am
by T.K.
Nikusakken wrote:What exactly happened?
He became nanner-like and Miller got onto him, apparently.
Re: formal goodbye
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 8:45 am
by bb_42001
news to me....
Re: formal goodbye
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 11:16 am
by Sedans
you knoe was messed up? the fact of how heavily my posts in this thread have been edited. its like, im bout ta be banned cant yall just grow some for a minute and let me have my moment.. hahah!
PostalDude wrote:*salute*
Hope you get to mod your Vic more.
dude you have no idea, im right in the middle of flipping the whole interior to a luxury Grand Marquis interior.
I already replaced the back seats with the leather GMQ ones..... and i got da split leather bench seats with armrests sitting in the garage waiting to be installed, PLUS I have the nice door panels waiting in the garage too, carpet material and wood grain OH !!!!! tomorrow im going to the junkyard to get mounting plates ofr the door panels so i can hook up the front seats.... im bout to hook this car UUUPP!!!
too bad none of you will be able to see it probably
Re: formal goodbye
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 11:20 am
by Sedans
oh, and as for what happened, ive been getting messages from miller to change my attitude and be nicer to people, Like WTF.. u cant fuggin make me be nice & you sho as hell cant make me change my attitude.
Also basically he told me to change my loc, avatar and sig or face the banhammer. I told him id change my loc and avatar, but im not changing my sig.
so basically he wants me to become a whole new person for this goddamn forum and well, thats just not gonna happen.. either you take me for what i am or you ban me, & it looks like hes got his mind set on banning me.
~~Cool.. anudda 1 bites da dust... Seeing as how im tha second oldest member here (not includin madness) whatev.
Re: formal goodbye
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 3:45 pm
by bb_42001
Sedans you can have one swear word in your signature, thats it though. and it cant be in bold. also i see your trying, but please remember this forum is open to 14 yr olds. and younger.
Re: formal goodbye
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 3:57 pm
by Sedans
i only have two & what difference does it make from 1 swear word or two? one of them arent even spelt correctly!
and the whole sig is in bold, i mean wat do you wan me to unbold the cuss words n leave the rest the way it is?
am not bein a smartass im actually asking legit questions....
Re: formal goodbye (MATURE LANGUAGE WARNING)
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 4:11 pm
by bb_42001
ok, you can leave them both in there, and sorry i meant dont capitalise the f**k, sorry wasn't thinking straight.
Re: formal goodbye (MATURE LANGUAGE WARNING)
Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 5:18 pm
by Sedans
done.
Re: formal goodbye (MATURE LANGUAGE WARNING)
Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 2:28 am
by emmetmcl
If you're going, just go.
Stop looking for sympathy!
Re: formal goodbye (MATURE LANGUAGE WARNING)
Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 4:26 am
by Sedans
emmetmcl wrote:If you're going, just go.
Stop looking for sympathy!
im not, biatch, there are other people here that might wonder where i went and im just letting them know. besides if im facing the banhammer, its not a "i think i feel like leaving guys..." thing. god i swear some people are f***ing retarded!
*mature language warning frees me from any consequences for cussing in this topic*
Re: formal goodbye (MATURE LANGUAGE WARNING)
Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 5:04 am
by T.K.
Let's just all agree that music is neat.
Re: formal goodbye (MATURE LANGUAGE WARNING)
Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 5:16 am
by PostalDude
I agree 100 percent.
His works from Scarface are also awesome.
Re: formal goodbye (MATURE LANGUAGE WARNING)
Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 6:52 am
by T.K.
I didn't listen to much of Scarface's. Didn't like it so much. Preferred Midnight Express's and his solo work.
Re: formal goodbye (MATURE LANGUAGE WARNING)
Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 4:11 pm
by Miller
What am I looking at? The boss makes one decision after another, and each time Sedans complains, so the boss changes his mind to accommodate Sedans, the one who is creating the problem? That is nuts.
It looks like Sedans is calling the shots. Is that the case?
Do the rules not apply to him only, or are there others? Is that something that gets decided as we go along? If someone throws a big enough temper tantrum, we acquiesce and then that person gets added to some kind of “do not disturb†list of people who are allowed to make a mockery of the boss’s authority as well as the entire community?
Boss, I volunteered to get behind this, but being behind something is probably the wrong location if it is going to be moving backward instead of forward. I do not feel like being rolled over, especially by someone who comes to your website to put down nearly everything DRIVER including the website and its members. That makes zero sense, man.
Sedans posted a message telling the members of the DMC to go f**k themselves, among other things I already forgot after deleting it when I saw it. Nikusakken just left it there. All he could think of to do is go, “What happened?†What kind of moderator sees a post telling everyone to go f**k themselves and just leaves it there? Of course Sedans approves of him as a moderator, he does not do any moderating.
Is that the kind of moderator I am supposed to be, too, man? You know I cannot be that? It makes no sense. Is a moderator not supposed to preserve the integrity of the forum and protect its members from abuse? If I am not allowed to do that, then why am I a moderator? You already have two who are ineffective. This is crazy.
Next we have Sedans calling someone a b*t*h and then saying he is â€f***ing retardedâ€. Is that not supposed to be a problem because the word b*t*h was spelled wrong, too, like fucc?
Who added the “mature language warning†to the topic title? Is that all someone has to do now if he or she wants to ignore the rules, just post a notice saying so?
What is going on? Who is running this website, man, Sedans? He does not even care about this website, and he will ruin it if we let him?
Look ahead and see where this ends. If our strategy to attract more visitors and register more members continues to work, what are we going to be doing, providing Sedans with enough people from which to make a little posse of degenerates who flame anyone he flames even if that person is right and Sedans is wrong?
Does anyone think most people learn the rules by reading them? They learn by example. If you do not enforce the rules, then no one knows what they are.
New members are going to come to this website, see posts full of profanity and abusive language all over the place and assume that it is okay to post profanity and abusive language all over the place. Little kids are going to say the same things to Sedans that they see him saying to others and there is going to be a lot of swearing and fighting and Sedans is going to think for some idiotic reason that he should be able to do it but they cannot because he has been making the website look bad for the longest or whatever. This is what you are asking for by not making it stop now.
The delay in the release of DSF gave us a chance to draw a big fat solid line between the way things should be and this sort of crap. Sedans is trying to make sure that line is not drawn because he thinks a forum full of people swearing at each other is some kind of paradise. People like him thrive on that.
Sedans is acting like a parasite, man. He is here to take and that is it. He comes here for attention and he knows the best way to get it is to be obscene and create conflict.
Sedans does not come here because he likes DRIVER games. He insults people who do like DRIVER games because they like DRIVER games. Why even have someone like that here? He is like a dim-witted version of Coyote or something.
He has not contributed anything DRIVER-related for years that I know of, unless saying it sucks counts. And he is killing our public image because we are letting him do it. Read his posts, man. He has had basically nothing good to say about this forum, its members, or DRIVER for a long, long time.
I was willing to make this place work. Most of us in the DMC are. We are putting in the money and the time and the work to help make something worthwhile. Almost every member of this community has indicated a sincere willingness to cooperate and a desire to see the results of that cooperation. I have not had to do anything but ask them for that and they said yes. Is this fair to them?
I have been friends with Sedans since I joined this website, but I am not willing to let him undermine our efforts to make something respectable of this place just because he is unable to appreciate that. I feel like a fool for trying to talk him into coming back earlier this year. I had no idea he was going to act the way he has been. He is like a walking insult machine, man.
What is Sedans, seventeen, man? He is a perfect example of just how it is that the world has come to be so full of adults who act like little kids. It is because when they go from being children to being grownups nothing changes but their age. Sedans is going to keep acting like this for a long time, if not forever, man.
Is someone waiting for something different to come from Sedans instead? It is not going to. This is what he does. It is not merely all he knows. It is all he cares about, making trouble. He does not do improvement. It is not his thing. Anyone who has had the privilege of reading e-mails about his own life will know this. It is insane to let him do the same thing here, man.
Since I started that YouTube.com channel to help promote this website, I have not received many comments on videos, but I do get views and thousands of people are seeing the ads for this place, just like in the past when I did that. I receive nice messages about DRIVER games and friend invites. I come here and see that people who sent those messages to my channel registered membership here the same day. I seriously doubt these people do that because they just cannot wait to have Sedans tell them to go f**k themselves. That is what they have to look forward to if we just let this happen.
This is crazy.
You people like the word fucc? Okay, then.
Fucc this.
By the way, what is the point of having a profanity filter if people can still see what the word is?
Re: formal goodbye (MATURE LANGUAGE WARNING)
Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 5:29 pm
by Sedans
whats crazy is, is that you just wrote like a 50 page rant about i dont even know because i didnt bother to read it all ,, seems like a waste time.. more like IS a waste. i think its about me.. cuz while scrolling down thru it all I musta seen my name like 1000 times... damn dude get a grip
did anyone else actually read that?
edit: K i read it. all i can say is BAH. I could go and rant on about you but i aint gonna bother. whats the point of sitting here trying to insult someone thru the computer, you are a joke my friend.
few things tho.
FIRST, i contributed a lot to this community over time, what have you done? made some crappy driver vids or fan vids or whatever? wrote some long ass stories or something? K man, watev.. Ive written reviews, gave a lot of help for the first driver games, and supported this series before it came crap. ya damn right i dont care about this sereis, at least not no more.. i used to.. now i just come here for the people.
second, i love how you cant insult me and just me, you bring nick into it. god man get a grip
thrid, you think that moderator thing is some sort of badge, like your a goddamn law enforcent officer or something. you think that means i HAVE to respect you.. NEWS FLASH, i dont, i dont have to and i dont, nor do i have to listen to you. sure i can get banned, but I dont HAVE to listen to you. bb is willing to make compromise cuz he doesnt want to lose another member in this decaying community. you? you need help.
and o, props to you about sharing details about my personal life.. but aye, ive shared the same ones before.. i guess im a thug.. like this is news to me... pfftt ...
mane i dont care .. idgaf bout you
Re: formal goodbye (MATURE LANGUAGE WARNING)
Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 5:34 pm
by PostalDude
TL;DR version-BANHAMMER INCOMING
Re: formal goodbye (MATURE LANGUAGE WARNING)
Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 5:44 pm
by Sedans
you think it was before... lol ... check the edit and look again HAHAH
Re: formal goodbye (MATURE LANGUAGE WARNING)
Posted: Tue Dec 28, 2010 1:42 am
by Miller
What Sedans wrote about what happened was accurate enough. I wanted him to change his attitude here and be nicer to people. That is a paraphrase, not what I actually wrote to him, but it is close enough. Only a morally depraved individual would think there is anything wrong with that.
I do not feel like addressing the idiotic things Sedans has posted on this matter, and I will not be issuing any warnings for the reasons stated below.
(08-23-10) e-mail excerpt from Miller to bb_42001:
Those two things, if I am not mistaken, are transforming DriverMadness.net into a complete website (and extended network) and cleaning up the conduct problems in the forum.
Is it your goal to improve DriverMadness.net in the ways described above?
(08-23-10) e-mail excerpt from bb_42001 to Miller:
Yes, you hit the point exactly
(08-23-10)
bb_42001 warns Sedans in the public forum for the same sort of thing at issue now, including calling someone fuckface.
(08-26-10)
Miller becomes a moderator. Takes leave to work on new web pages.
(10-04-10)
Sedans is warned by bb_42001 for the same sort of thing at issue now (and for being too sexy - lol). It goes in his record.
(10-13-10) e-mail excerpt from Miller to bb_42001:
I will be back at the forum again after I get this stage done (web pages). If it is okay with you, boss, I would like to devote more time to cleaning up the foul language that has already been posted to significant forum topics and make an active effort to help you discourage members from continuing to post that sort of garbage.
(10-13-10) e-mail excerpt from bb_42001 to Miller:
am love with your ideas, and i like the fact you want to add more web pages to the website. I also agree that there is way too much foul language on the site, and because your a mod now, you can do it alot easier.
(11-27-10) Private message excerpt from Miller to Sedans:
I am trying to discourage members from using profanity outside of the Driver Stories, the Trash section, and in their blogs. People who cuss once in a while are not the problem. People who cuss like you do make this website look bad, so please stop cussing so much and try to keep it to those places I mentioned above, man. Also, it would be nice if you were a little more polite to people.
No reply to message. Request ignored. I continue deleting garbage posted and wait to see if it stops.
(12-08-10) Public message excerpt by Miller to entire community:
There are a lot of DRIVER fans who do not want to see f**k sh*t GODDAM b*t*h every time they open a topic to read.
(12-08-10) Public message excerpt by bb_42001 to entire community:
I hate to say i agree with miller
(12-24-10) Private message excerpt from Miller to Sedans:
Please stop posting profanity outside of the Trash section, Driver Stories segments (not in comments on stories), and your own blog (not in other people's blogs). Thank you, man.
No reply to message. Just more garbage posted by Sedans and deleted by me. I send him a message to let him know that I am no longer going to follow him around deleting things he has already been asked by me and warned by the boss not to post.
(12-25-10) Private message excerpt from Miller to Sedans:
This is not a suggestion or a request. These are the things you need to do now if you want to keep your posting privileges in this forum.
1) Change your avatar to something less offensive.
2) Remove the profanity from your signature.
3) Stop being so blatantly antagonistic with your comments to people.
Speaking hypothetically, so you know where things stand, after this message it will have to be a formal warning. After that you will be banned for a month. After that the length of time for which you are banned will increase to six months, and then a year.
(12-25-10) Private message from Miller to Sedans:
Sorry. I did not notice what it says in your location. Please change that, too, man.
So Sedans complains and the boss gives in, just like before. Okay, you can have one swear word in your signature. Okay, two words but not in bold. Okay, you can have it in bold but not capitalized.
What do I read next? Okay, you can call him f**ker, but not fuckface. Okay, you can call him fuckface but not in bold. Okay, you can make it bold but just don’t use capital letters.
Does anyone see where I am going with this? This is where the difference is between my way of moderating and what you had. Before it was basically, “Hmm, which of these two troublemakers do I like the least? Okay, that makes him wrong and the other one right?†That may be a comical simplification of it, but who can honestly say this is not essentially what you have been getting from your moderators?
I did not pull all of this out of my crack. And I did not just wake up one day and decided to commandeer the boss’s website. I made a set of specific proposals to the boss aimed at making this website more successful. He agreed with me and gave access to the database, moderator authority, and permission to go ahead and make a difference in the way that was described before I ever started doing it.
Anyone who thinks something else happened does not know what he or she is talking about.
The ones who follow the rules would act right even if there were no rules to follow. The rules are there because of people like Sedans, who do not know how to act right. The moderators are supposed to be there to make sure people like Sedans do act right. If one person is allowed to refuse to cooperate, then why should anyone else feel obliged to cooperate?
As you can see, the problem for me as a moderator is this. If someone does not like the rules, he can just say so and the rules change for that person. That pretty much means the rules are not really worth anything. That also means there is no point in having a moderator who is actually willing to do the job properly.
Check it out for yourself, man. We have moderators here who seem to think the point of being one is so you can write “Driver Madness Moderator†in your signature at other websites. That is ludicrous. Moderator status is not a trophy; it is a job.
Was that really such a severe thing to ask, that people stop calling each other fuckface and stuff like that? At Driver-Dimension.com, for example, the moderators even intervene to ask people to use punctuation in their posts so readers can tell what they are saying instead of just posting the kind of little kid gibberish that we allow anyone to post at Driver Madness Network.
There is nothing wrong with what I was trying to do here. The only ones who think what I was doing was bad are the ones who make this website look bad. They are the same people who say this website sucks, and if you let them have their way it will.
For me there is not much point in sticking around a website that functions this way.
Good luck to all of you.
Re: formal goodbye (MATURE LANGUAGE WARNING)
Posted: Tue Dec 28, 2010 1:58 am
by emmetmcl
Just go sedans, obviously nobody wants you if you are just going to swear at us all, we all know why you'll be gone, so can someone either ban him or just go away Sedans!
Re: formal goodbye (MATURE LANGUAGE WARNING)
Posted: Tue Dec 28, 2010 2:29 am
by Nikusakken
I'm tired of those lengthy discussions. I'm tired of Sedans "yo gangstaz" writing. I'm tired of people not following the rules. I'm tired of myself not being a good moderator and not enforcing the rules. I'm tired of all this butthurting. I'm tired of this place. I'm tired of everything and everyone.